As a rule, women can be difficult to understand. You'll never be able to figure out what they want, what irritates them, or why they act the way they do without asking them directly.
Asking questions and maintaining open lines of communication are the keys to better knowing your partner in a relationship.
Some inquiries, on the other hand, should never be made.
You should always be open and honest with your partner but there are some topics and queries that might create more harm than good. It's not uncommon for males to make this error without even realising it. Here's a rundown of the details:
You should never ask your girlfriend these five questions:
You've Had A Number Of Partners, How Many Total?
She may be offended by this if you aren't on the same page when it comes to talking about anything. She may be afraid of being judged or making you feel uncomfortable if she responds.
What's more, it doesn't really matter, and it's best not to raise the issue in order to prevent more confusion and conflict.
Do You Think I'm Hotter Or Better Than Your Last Partner?
This is a query that will never provide any useful results.
In addition, this might portray you as a clingy man who feels the need to prove himself superior to the other men she has dated. It doesn't matter if she responds or not; this inquiry is as meaningless as her previous connections in your love life.
A Memoir Of A Loss Or A Tragedy In The Past
Don't bring up an unpleasant incident she's discussed in the past and then press her to tell you about it until she does so herself. Give her space to talk about it on her own terms. You can question her if she mentions it again, but it may make her feel as though you don't respect her privacy if you ask her.
What's The Matter With You?
Or obnoxious, self-centered, or any other unkind adjective.
It doesn't matter if you think her lethargy is adorable, applaud her for being sensitive, or sincerely want to know what's wrong with her.
It's not as if she's supposed to have an answer to this. It'll just make things worse for her.
Why Aren't You Friendly, Caring, Or Romantic Enough?
Here, too, the same theory applies. In your eyes, it seems like she's undervalued and underappreciated by you, which might lead to her leaving sooner than you expect.
Discontinue bringing up comparisons between her and other women you know or ex-girlfriends you've had – and you will be golden!
