Being cool is more than leather jackets and hipster lingo.
Defining what makes someone cool is not easy because cool is something that differs from person to person. For some a hat wearing gentleman is cool while others find psychology majors cool.
Being cool is something we all want to be but only some can pull it off. There is more to coolness than dressing up or how they pretend to be. A cool person is someone who is comfortable with who they are – both inside and outside. Cool people bring their own unique energy and whatever they show they are, they actually are from inside.
These are the traits of effortlessly cool people come with.
Impressing people isn’t their thing
Cool people are so comfortable with their own skin that they do not feel the need to impress anyone. But that doesn’t mean they are dismissive or mean to people. Quite the opposite, they are generally kind people.
They don’t judge people for their choices
Cool people welcome others with quirks and they practice self-acceptance. They are not judgemental and is possibly the reason others find them cool.
And their energy is unique and refreshing
Cool people are attuned to people’s emotional temperature. They are comfortable with themselves that they have infectious energy that is so unique you will feel good around them.
Independent
The cool people are independent. They like doing things that they are passionate about, even if people think its quirky. The fact that they keep doing what they like makes them likeable and we call them cool.
Loves trying new things
Because they rarely get fazed and is always prepared to hit the curveball life throws at them, they try new things, even though they might be good at it. And that is exactly why people find them cool. They make trying something for the first time look effortless.
They come with the ability to make anything fun or funny
Cool people have unique energy that sort of spreads through the room. They are comfortable being who they are. They try new things and they encourage people too. Most times the people who are confident, comfortable are the ones who turns out to the most fun.
Cool people can have deep conversations
Cool people are open books, They don’t pretend to be something they are not. Even though it’s a common belief that being cool means being distant and mysterious. To tell the truth, cool people can dig deeper while holding conversation, much further than “Hi how are you?”. Because they have such a connection with their inner self, they don’t hold back and can do more than surface level conversations.
