The first impression often is long-lasting and this makes it really intimidating for many people. Here are some scientifically proven ways to ensure that you make a positive first impression every time you meet new people.
Have a confident handshake
It has been scientifically proven that a firm, dry but warm handshake strikes a lasting first impression. You should take care of this all the more with women as compared to men as women read and feel nonverbal cues much better than men. A handshake often is the first contact between two strangers and a strong handshake establishes a great first impression.
Maintain eye contact
Adequate eye contact is one of the most important parameters in forming impressions such as confidence, interest, and intelligence. When someone does not make eye contact, it hinders forming any kind of connection or bonding. But don’t let eye contact creepy long, making new connections uncomfortable.
Mind your dress
There is an obvious bias for people that are well dressed; if you see a person in a well-fitted suit, you assume them to be a successful, confident, and high earner. To create a lasting first impression, always dress well when meeting someone for the first time.
Choose the right voice tone
Research has proven that even a single word “Hello” said in a particular tone is good enough to make a lasting judgment about the person. You form long-lasting impressions such as likable, trustworthy, dominant, timid by the first few words said by someone. For reference, the high-pitched female voice is considered impressive and dominant whereas, for men, such traits are demonstrated by low pitched tone.
Listen and be interested
When you are meeting someone for the first time, let them feel listened to and understood as this promotes acceptance and openness. This helps build trust that is much needed between strangers. Begin with small talks, more informal dialogue before moving to a possible business discussion while forming a positive first impression.
Lastly, smile, please
Even before starting a conversation, if you see your new acquittance beaming with a bright smile, it eases the tension experienced in meeting new people and sparks a great first impression. It’s proven that people read nonverbal impressions more to form lasting impressions. A smiling face brings about more positivity in an opening meeting than a straight face.
Try to meet physically, strike a pose and make a lasting positive impression.
